
Normally I'm a fast frenetic kind of person, running from appointment to appointment, goal to objective, a journey is a waste of time, process pointless, product everything, achieving is what matters, task orientated to the hilt.
Thank God for Children. I still remember my first walk to the shops with one of my fledgeling toddlers - perhaps a quarter of a mile to get a loaf of bread - it took over an hour, the reason ? Not just the little legs struggling to keep up with dad but also stopping every 2 or 3 paces to gaze with open mouth at the latest discovery - a twig or a leaf. Staring with whispered "wow" flowing from gaping lips, the amazed wide eyes, the innocent and complete focus on something as basic as a leaf. It severely irritated and frustrated me at first, " Come on , hurry up, I'll buy you some sweets," and all the usual parental bribery proceeded but then I slowed, not just my pace but my whole perspective, and we spent some precious moments getting turned on by a dead leaf.
My child had a sense of "wow", a feeling of wonder, something I had long ago, dulled through years of time management strategies, things to do lists and performance-related pay. I'm learning now to slow, to stop, to flow, to wonder, to think deeply, to have "wow". Walking down busy Exeter streets passing towering office blocks in the ravine of speed, buzz and action, I'm now learning to gaze up briefly at the clouds; I'm enjoying the journey not just the destination, I'm learning to slow for special family rituals, the birthdays, the family night and the days out. Life is too short to be 'wonder-less' , make it 'wonder-full'.
13 ways to restore lost wonder and the sense of "wow".
• Put the word 'wonder' in a web search engine and see what comes out.
• Close the living room door, shut the curtains, turn on some 'big' music and dance ( particularly useful with small children around ).
• Pay £10 for a Big Issue.
• Listen to a gregorian chant CD whilst soaking in a hot tub.
• Chew slowly.
• Fast TV for a week.
• Cry at the birth of a child.
• Have a heart to heart with your Creator.
• If you are Radio 1 FM, try Classic FM for a day.
• If you are Classic FM try Gemini for as long as you can take it.
• If you are Radio 2 ..... no comment.
• Spontaneously and secretly give someone a very generous gift.
• Construct a tent in your front room and camp out the night with some kids.
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